Author Archives: phettehollins

Hard Reset: Designing the Life I Deserve & Desire

Life has been truly life’n. I mean life’n AF!!! But I’m still here. Since October 2021, I got fired from a job, caught COVID for the second time, got into a car accident where I was hit head on by a police officer, had to get that car repossessed, quit a job, & am inContinue reading “Hard Reset: Designing the Life I Deserve & Desire”

Release the Journals – New Healing Series on YouTube

So…I did a thing. 5 yrs ago, a friend of mine suggested I release my journals. At the time, I couldn’t see the vision. Although I’m an open book (for the most part), I couldn’t see myself being that vulnerable. Towards the end of last year, that same friend suggested it again & I wasContinue reading “Release the Journals – New Healing Series on YouTube”

The Happy Man At the Gas Station| #Day13of100

It was 7 a.m. & I stopped at the gas station before dropping my daughter off at school. As I was walking inside, a man, who wasn’t looking where he was going, almost bumped into me. He looked my way just in the nick of time & let out an apologetic, “I’m sorry. Excuse me.”Continue reading “The Happy Man At the Gas Station| #Day13of100”

Human Design: Blueprint of Your Life | #Day12of100

Almost two months ago, I ordered a Human Design Blueprint from a young woman I’ve been following on Instagram for a few years. Her posts & stories really resonate with me, so I felt compelled to have a reading done. I truly believe that the greatest education one could get is learning/studying thyself. Once youContinue reading “Human Design: Blueprint of Your Life | #Day12of100”

Hypervigilance: What it is & how it has affected my life| #Day16of100

In 2019, I was close to having a nervous breakdown. I was having minor but persistent health issues while working at a job that I absolutely hated, which was only adding insult to injury. From 2017 to 2019, I was suspended 3 times, ranging from 1 to 5 days without pay. In all of myContinue reading “Hypervigilance: What it is & how it has affected my life| #Day16of100”

Have you been seeing all of those red flag 🚩 posts? | #Day18of100

I swear. The internet is hella funny. It stay entertaining me. While some things in deez internet streets are super ridiculous, others do be having some validity to them. The reason I chose to talk about red flags is because I’m that one who ignored tf outta them for yeeaaarrrsssss. Not only in my romanticContinue reading “Have you been seeing all of those red flag 🚩 posts? | #Day18of100”

Pivoting After A Major Blow in my Business | #Day17of100

This is my first time talking about this publicly. For months, it was too painful to even think about let alone talk about. The reason why it was so hard was because I knew it wasn’t anybody else’s fault but my own. I couldn’t point the finger, no matter how much I tried to. IContinue reading “Pivoting After A Major Blow in my Business | #Day17of100”

Sapiosexual | #Day15of100

In one of my earlier posts (which you can read here), I talked about being bored out of my gat damn mind & how I crave mental stimulation. I mean, I do a pretty good job entertaining myself & meeting my 6 Basic Human Needs but…shit! As humans, we are hardwired for connection & interaction.Continue reading “Sapiosexual | #Day15of100”