Accept what is | #Day9of100

My cousin came to visit me at my new place the other day, while I had male company over. She had heard me talk about this guy for almost a year but never met him. Initially, he & I did try to see what we could see. Ya know? See if we could possibly beContinue reading “Accept what is | #Day9of100”

Forgive yourself | #Day8of100

We hear all too often about how we should forgive this person for mistreating us or that person for hurting our feelings. And also that forgiving a person is for you & not them. While that may be true, we don’t give enough credence to how necessary & important it is to forgive ourselves. IContinue reading “Forgive yourself | #Day8of100”

One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100

Me & this dude right here used to have so much fun together. I was 16 & he was 18. If my memory serves me correctly, he had just recently moved to Romulus, Michigan, a small town, from Ypsilanti, Michigan, another small town. There’s roughly 20,000 people & 36 square miles, one junior high &Continue reading “One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100”

Don’t chase, just…be | #Day6of100

We live in such a hustle hustle grind go culture. Can’t stop won’t stop, don’t sleep til you’re dead type culture. But, that mentality doesn’t work for everybody. We are all spiritual beings with different energetic compositions. We’re all not meant to burn the candle at both ends, or live off of three hours ofContinue reading “Don’t chase, just…be | #Day6of100”

bored af: SINGLE while craving human touch & emotional closeness| #Day4of100

Before I began writing this post, I asked Siri what the definitions of bored and lonely were. I had already chosen the title, but wanted to make sure that I was choosing the right adjective to describe my current state. I was right. I don’t feel sad or a sense of abandonment, nor do IContinue reading “bored af: SINGLE while craving human touch & emotional closeness| #Day4of100”

Time for a man, a bat, and/or a gun… | #Day5of100

Last week, I moved into a new place. I absolutely, positively love fresh starts. The last few places I lived, I didn’t bother getting acquainted with the neighbors. Why, I’m not really sure. I mean, I chatted with one of the neighbors occasionally. She was a young lady, around the same age as my 27-year-oldContinue reading “Time for a man, a bat, and/or a gun… | #Day5of100”

How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100

Over the last couple of years, I’ve been delving into Shadow Work. Reading up on anything I can get my hands on. If you’re not familiar, it’s a concept created by Carl Jung, a psychologist from back in the day, who believed that we all have a light side and a dark, shadow side toContinue reading “How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100”

Healing Wounds | #ConsistenPhe #Day2of100

I’ve moved around A LOT as an adult. No place ever felt like home. I now know that that’s bcz I was unsettled in my spirit. It didn’t matter if I was in a big house, small house, apartment, or townhome, nowhere ever felt…right. Folks judge me bcz of it & I hi-key used toContinue reading “Healing Wounds | #ConsistenPhe #Day2of100”

Sitting on top of the cardboard box | #ConsistenPhe #Day1of100

The message that’s in my spirit today is thinking outside the box. We hear it all of the time & maybe even feel like we are doing so. I know I did. I’m always talking about authenticity & being true to yourself & be you & do you…but guess what? These last several months, I’veContinue reading “Sitting on top of the cardboard box | #ConsistenPhe #Day1of100”

Is Sex Overrated?🤔

The Brown Beauties are BAACCCCKKKK!!! Hey there heeeyyyy, If you’ve been following me for some time then you’ll remember when I had a LIVE show on Facebook called Brown Beauties Talk. It’s a show my good friend Lavyana & I created where we talked about not only being single & dating but also love, life & relationships.Continue reading “Is Sex Overrated?🤔”