Sitting on top of the cardboard box | #ConsistenPhe #Day1of100

The message that’s in my spirit today is thinking outside the box. We hear it all of the time & maybe even feel like we are doing so. I know I did. I’m always talking about authenticity & being true to yourself & be you & do you…but guess what? These last several months, I’ve been struggling. Struggling with the age old question: WHO AM I? Crazy, right? Crazy bcz I’ve been showing up on this blog fervently, albeit, intermittently these last 10 years. Sharing my stories, opening up, being a little bit transparent. Meaning, I’ve definitely got more work to do but I’m willing to do it 💪🏾

But lately, I’ve been stifled, stuck. Feeling like an imposter. Mainly bcz I’ve been trying to put what I do neatly into a box. Looking at folks on social media who are actors, writers, coaches, or those who are able to say with specificity who they are & what they do. This took me down the comparison rabbit hole.

I am a Writer, an Intuitive Life Coach, a Consultant, a Messenger, a Healer, a Connector…all the things. In a nutshell —-I’m a Multi-hyphenate, like Debbie Allen & so many others. A friend of mine tagged me in the speech Mrs. Allen gave at the Emmys, saying that it’s our time to shine, step up, show up. That message couldn’t have come at a more divine time.

But as you can see, all of those titles take up a lot of space in an Instagram bio &, according to strategists & marketing gurus, you must state clearly in ONE WORD who you are & what you do in 100 characters or less. This has been stressing me the fuck out & causing me to question myself, shrink, hide, minimize.

Then I told myself that it’s more than ok to be exactly who I am. It’s ok to be all the things & to not let society or anyone tell me who to be or how I should be packaged. All I have to do is show up & own all that is me, unapologetically!

If you’re also multi-passionate & multi-talented & have been doubting your gifts, dimming your light, trying to stuff your YOUness in a perfect little box remember this:

Give yourself permission to be creative, to express & to try on all the things without guilt or shame. Be the you that only you can be.

Until next time…

Is Sex Overrated?🤔

The Brown Beauties are BAACCCCKKKK!!!

Hey there heeeyyyy,

If you’ve been following me for some time then you’ll remember when I had a LIVE show on Facebook called Brown Beauties Talk.

It’s a show my good friend Lavyana & I created where we talked about not only being single & dating but also love, life & relationships.

The show took off ✈ So fast that we got overwhelmed & couldn’t keep up with the demand.

But, over the years, folks couldn’t stop talking about it so we thought 🤔…maybe we should bring BBT back.

After mulling it over for 2 1/2 years, we decided to do just that!!!!

Both Lavyana & I have been working, individually on ourselves while simultaneously building our business & brand. I am excited that we can now show up fully for yall, our peeps, our family, our tribe in our greatest expression as Intimacy Coaches & Sensual Doulas (doesn’t that sound sexy 😉)? Because, at the end of the day, we just want to help women heal our wombs so that we can get the love & life we WANT…

We did a soft launch last week that was well received. It felt good to get the energy & love from yall 💜💛💜

We’re going LIVE TUH-NIGHT on Facebook to discuss SEX & all its taboo’ness & to see what yall have to say about whether or not it’s overrated. This is going to be juicy!

Join us @7pm EST on my personal Facebook page.
 

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Brown Beauties Talk is BAAACCCKKKK!!!

NEW look/location for the Journey to Becoming Podcast

The Journey to Becoming podcast has a NEW location. It’s still on the Anchor platform but also has been integrated into my website. I created another Anchor account to do so. So, going forward, the podcast will be housed on my website AND HERE — anchor.fm/phette-hollins

Healing Made Simple — Starter Kit

The question I get asked a lot is where does one start in their healing journey.

So, I created some tools that have helped me along the way.

Download here: Healing Made Simple Starter Kit

Author Chat w/ @sylviahubbard1

Black Horror, Lovecraft Country, Racism, & being a Black filmmaker| Interview w/Kimberly Batchelor Davis | #LovecraftCountry #blackhorror

Me & Kim B. Davis

I had theee absolute best time on Kimberly Batchelor Davis’ The Kim B. Davis Show. We talked about Black horror, Lovecraft Country, & being a Black filmmaker today. Some good stuff.

Check out the Full Interview on YouTube here!

And, if you’re more of a listener, here’s the Podcast version.

Chakra Series: The Crown |by Phette Hollins

We made it, part 7 of 7 in the Chakra Series.

I hope you got a chance to check out the other videos in the series. If not, worry not. You can watch them all HERE!

Let me know what you thought about the series. I hope it brought awareness and enlightenment🧘🏿‍♀️

Until next time…

The Crown Chakra

The Crown Chakra

Chakra Series: Third Eye Chakra |by Phette Hollins

We’re almost there.

This is Part 6 of 7 in the Chakra Series, which consists of short videos explaining what chakras are and their roles in our lives.

If you like what you’ve seen so far, please tell your friends. You can scroll down and check out previous posts to see the other videos in the series.

Which chakra(s) is your favorite so far? Mine are the throat and the sacral💛💜💛.

The Third Eye

Third Eye Chakra

Chakra Series: The Throat Chakra |by Phette Hollins

Heeeyyyy.

You made it to Part 5 of 7 of the Chakra Series.

Honestly, it doesn’t matter in which order you watch the videos. I just started from the bottom (root) to the top (crown).

See ya next week…

The Throat Chakra

The Throat Chakra
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