What are your dreams trying to tell you | #Day11of100

Up until very recently, I used to think that dreams were these random, oftentimes crazy happenings. Because, what could it possibly mean, besides nothing at all, to dream that all of your teeth are falling out? Or that you’re suspended in air, floating about in a parking lot? Or that you’re being chased by monstersContinue reading “What are your dreams trying to tell you | #Day11of100”

Accept what is | #Day9of100

My cousin came to visit me at my new place the other day, while I had male company over. She had heard me talk about this guy for almost a year but never met him. Initially, he & I did try to see what we could see. Ya know? See if we could possibly beContinue reading “Accept what is | #Day9of100”

Forgive yourself | #Day8of100

We hear all too often about how we should forgive this person for mistreating us or that person for hurting our feelings. And also that forgiving a person is for you & not them. While that may be true, we don’t give enough credence to how necessary & important it is to forgive ourselves. IContinue reading “Forgive yourself | #Day8of100”

One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100

Me & this dude right here used to have so much fun together. I was 16 & he was 18. If my memory serves me correctly, he had just recently moved to Romulus, Michigan, a small town, from Ypsilanti, Michigan, another small town. There’s roughly 20,000 people & 36 square miles, one junior high &Continue reading “One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100”

bored af: SINGLE while craving human touch & emotional closeness| #Day4of100

Before I began writing this post, I asked Siri what the definitions of bored and lonely were. I had already chosen the title, but wanted to make sure that I was choosing the right adjective to describe my current state. I was right. I don’t feel sad or a sense of abandonment, nor do IContinue reading “bored af: SINGLE while craving human touch & emotional closeness| #Day4of100”

How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100

Over the last couple of years, I’ve been delving into Shadow Work. Reading up on anything I can get my hands on. If you’re not familiar, it’s a concept created by Carl Jung, a psychologist from back in the day, who believed that we all have a light side and a dark, shadow side toContinue reading “How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100”

Celibacy — 3 Reasons why I’ve chosen to do so | @phetteogburn #AddressNotSuppress

Happy Sunday. Happy day. Any day on the sunny side of the dirt is worth rejoicing. I had a very rough weekend, so I’m a bit exhausted. However, I refused to let that be an excuse to not make a Blog/Vlog post. Today’s topic: CELIBACY Sexual abstinence from some or all aspects of sexual activityContinue reading “Celibacy — 3 Reasons why I’ve chosen to do so | @phetteogburn #AddressNotSuppress”

What is your pain trying to tell you? @phetteogburn

Hi y’all. I’m back. The reason for my one week delay is because my laptop is semi-functional and causing me some grief… For a couple of days, it wouldn’t allow me to log in. Now that I’m able to log in, I have to be crafty and minimize the programs I’m working in just rightContinue reading “What is your pain trying to tell you? @phetteogburn”

Reflection ~One Year Later: 5 Things I Learned After the Divorce @phetteogburn

Happy Monday!!!! Let me say off the rip, please excuse the quality of this video. I recorded it late last night with no natural light (which works best for my webcam). This is not a comprehensive list, but just a few things I’ve learned since my divorce a year and a half ago. 1. PaceContinue reading “Reflection ~One Year Later: 5 Things I Learned After the Divorce @phetteogburn”

Address NOT Suppress Healing Series: Family @phetteogburn

Hey y’all, A few months ago, I announced on my YouTube Channel that I would be doing a series called Address NOT Suppress, a healing series. This series will essentially be documenting my healing journey and getting to the essence of being a better ME. I saw a therapist yesterday, who I believe will notContinue reading “Address NOT Suppress Healing Series: Family @phetteogburn”