4 Reasons WHY You Shouldn’t Wanna Be a #SideChick | #DustToSideChicks |Phette Hollins

If you read my other post about side chicks, you’re probably wondering what the fascination is. There is none, really. I’m just writing what I know based on my experiences, with the hopes that someone can relate & escape that mental & emotional prison she’s in. Over the last few years, I’ve been pretty transparentContinue reading “4 Reasons WHY You Shouldn’t Wanna Be a #SideChick | #DustToSideChicks |Phette Hollins”

Change your priorities, change your life | Phette Hollins 

I saw this meme the other day: Before my healing journey my priorities were all jacked up. My main focus was romantic relationships because I craved attention. But when you start healing one thing, it carries over to other areas. I started off wanting to heal because pain kept showing up in patterns. I wasContinue reading “Change your priorities, change your life | Phette Hollins “

If you lost your virginity @11 yrs old, you’d be effed up, too | #DiggingInTheBag |@phettehollins #DITB

Digging in the bag is metaphoric for Digging in the soul. What I discovered as I was scavenging through old photos was how different I was “back then.” Of course, as time progresses the hope is to grow. But sadly, some folks don’t. They stay stuck, stagnant. I want to take the time to celebrate growth…andContinue reading “If you lost your virginity @11 yrs old, you’d be effed up, too | #DiggingInTheBag |@phettehollins #DITB”

Ray of Clouds #Ninja4 | #DiggingInTheBag |@phettehollins #DITB

Unlike my last post, *you can read it –> HERE <–*, I got permission to post the photos I’m about to post without having to mask the face. The ones you see with the masks are, in this case, innocent bystanders. 🙂 OK, HERE IT GOES… I got so many pictures of this dude I had toContinue reading “Ray of Clouds #Ninja4 | #DiggingInTheBag |@phettehollins #DITB”

I live with my baby mama but I swear on my kids we ain’t f@cking – #Ninja2 | #LetItPurge #PurgeItThursday #DiggingInTheBag | @phettehollins #DITB

Purge 1. to rid of whatever is impure or undesirable; cleanse; purify. 2. to rid, clear, or free (usually followed by of or from). ~Dictionary.com Stories connect & heal us. Sometimes we’re stuck and don’t even know it. It becomes a new normal. Second nature. But if you find that you keep ending up inContinue reading “I live with my baby mama but I swear on my kids we ain’t f@cking – #Ninja2 | #LetItPurge #PurgeItThursday #DiggingInTheBag | @phettehollins #DITB”

Detox: For real for real, this time : Day 2 #WritingThroughIt | @phettehollins

Blocked your calls. Blocked your text messages… but I know you’re messaging. Work…phone…write…phone…sleep…Netflix…check blocked messages…write…eat…phone…check blocked messages…check blocked messages…sleep…check blocked messages. #repeat Blocked your calls. Blocked your text messages…but I know you’re messaging. slowly…blocking…you! *Disclaimer: My #WritingThroughIt posts are raw emotions with very little editing. I’m not super pressed about grammar, but will give theContinue reading “Detox: For real for real, this time : Day 2 #WritingThroughIt | @phettehollins”

Demons: #WritingThroughIt | #BczOfSelina @phettehollins

I swear I’ve never felt so much pain as the pain I feel since I lost my mother. Almost 8 months later and I’m still in shock. Some days all I wanna do is lie in bed, balled up in the fetal position, and cry for days. That’s it. Not take a shower. Not getContinue reading “Demons: #WritingThroughIt | #BczOfSelina @phettehollins”

#DiggingInTheBag – The Intro |@phettehollins #DITB

Because we’re in an age where cell phone camera pictures are all the rage, I thought it’d be fun to take pictures (with my cell phone’s camera) of actual Polaroid and 35mm camera pictures and whatever other types of cameras that were used…back in the day. But while digging in the BIG bag (see imageContinue reading “#DiggingInTheBag – The Intro |@phettehollins #DITB”

4 Reasons Why I Needed A Break

It has been a while. Like…2015 a while, since my last post. Soooo…happy holidays, Merry New Year, and all lat. Most of us have lots of things going on and have to juggle and do balancing acts to ensure things flow. Because, the reality is, we all get the same 24 hours in a dayContinue reading “4 Reasons Why I Needed A Break”