Human Design: Blueprint of Your Life | #Day12of100

Almost two months ago, I ordered a Human Design Blueprint from a young woman I’ve been following on Instagram for a few years. Her posts & stories really resonate with me, so I felt compelled to have a reading done. I truly believe that the greatest education one could get is learning/studying thyself. Once youContinue reading “Human Design: Blueprint of Your Life | #Day12of100”

Hypervigilance: What it is & how it has affected my life| #Day16of100

In 2019, I was close to having a nervous breakdown. I was having minor but persistent health issues while working at a job that I absolutely hated, which was only adding insult to injury. From 2017 to 2019, I was suspended 3 times, ranging from 1 to 5 days without pay. In all of myContinue reading “Hypervigilance: What it is & how it has affected my life| #Day16of100”

Have you been seeing all of those red flag 🚩 posts? | #Day18of100

I swear. The internet is hella funny. It stay entertaining me. While some things in deez internet streets are super ridiculous, others do be having some validity to them. The reason I chose to talk about red flags is because I’m that one who ignored tf outta them for yeeaaarrrsssss. Not only in my romanticContinue reading “Have you been seeing all of those red flag 🚩 posts? | #Day18of100”

What are your dreams trying to tell you | #Day11of100

Up until very recently, I used to think that dreams were these random, oftentimes crazy happenings. Because, what could it possibly mean, besides nothing at all, to dream that all of your teeth are falling out? Or that you’re suspended in air, floating about in a parking lot? Or that you’re being chased by monstersContinue reading “What are your dreams trying to tell you | #Day11of100”

Forgive yourself | #Day8of100

We hear all too often about how we should forgive this person for mistreating us or that person for hurting our feelings. And also that forgiving a person is for you & not them. While that may be true, we don’t give enough credence to how necessary & important it is to forgive ourselves. IContinue reading “Forgive yourself | #Day8of100”

One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100

Me & this dude right here used to have so much fun together. I was 16 & he was 18. If my memory serves me correctly, he had just recently moved to Romulus, Michigan, a small town, from Ypsilanti, Michigan, another small town. There’s roughly 20,000 people & 36 square miles, one junior high &Continue reading “One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100”

bored af: SINGLE while craving human touch & emotional closeness| #Day4of100

Before I began writing this post, I asked Siri what the definitions of bored and lonely were. I had already chosen the title, but wanted to make sure that I was choosing the right adjective to describe my current state. I was right. I don’t feel sad or a sense of abandonment, nor do IContinue reading “bored af: SINGLE while craving human touch & emotional closeness| #Day4of100”

How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100

Over the last couple of years, I’ve been delving into Shadow Work. Reading up on anything I can get my hands on. If you’re not familiar, it’s a concept created by Carl Jung, a psychologist from back in the day, who believed that we all have a light side and a dark, shadow side toContinue reading “How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100”

Healing Wounds | #ConsistenPhe #Day2of100

I’ve moved around A LOT as an adult. No place ever felt like home. I now know that that’s bcz I was unsettled in my spirit. It didn’t matter if I was in a big house, small house, apartment, or townhome, nowhere ever felt…right. Folks judge me bcz of it & I hi-key used toContinue reading “Healing Wounds | #ConsistenPhe #Day2of100”

4 Signs that it’s time to heal & get your sh!t together | by Phette Hollins

So, today, I did a thing. I went LIVE on my Facebook Business Page. Usually, I go LIVE from my personal page because I get waaayyy more engagement on there. But, in an attempt to start thinking of things from a business lens, I did it there. It was also my first time using StreamYardContinue reading “4 Signs that it’s time to heal & get your sh!t together | by Phette Hollins”