The Happy Man At the Gas Station| #Day13of100

It was 7 a.m. & I stopped at the gas station before dropping my daughter off at school. As I was walking inside, a man, who wasn’t looking where he was going, almost bumped into me. He looked my way just in the nick of time & let out an apologetic, “I’m sorry. Excuse me.”Continue reading “The Happy Man At the Gas Station| #Day13of100”

Pivoting After A Major Blow in my Business | #Day17of100

This is my first time talking about this publicly. For months, it was too painful to even think about let alone talk about. The reason why it was so hard was because I knew it wasn’t anybody else’s fault but my own. I couldn’t point the finger, no matter how much I tried to. IContinue reading “Pivoting After A Major Blow in my Business | #Day17of100”

Sapiosexual | #Day15of100

In one of my earlier posts (which you can read here), I talked about being bored out of my gat damn mind & how I crave mental stimulation. I mean, I do a pretty good job entertaining myself & meeting my 6 Basic Human Needs but…shit! As humans, we are hardwired for connection & interaction.Continue reading “Sapiosexual | #Day15of100”

The first true love of my life, my #1stBorn | #Day10of100

Words cannot express how uber proud I am of my oldest daughter. She’s smart, focused, determined with a big heart. I reckon that’s why she decided to become a nurse. When she was in high school, she’d always say that she wanted to be a neo-natal nurse. She absolutely loves kids. She is the #1Continue reading “The first true love of my life, my #1stBorn | #Day10of100”

Forgive yourself | #Day8of100

We hear all too often about how we should forgive this person for mistreating us or that person for hurting our feelings. And also that forgiving a person is for you & not them. While that may be true, we don’t give enough credence to how necessary & important it is to forgive ourselves. IContinue reading “Forgive yourself | #Day8of100”

Don’t chase, just…be | #Day6of100

We live in such a hustle hustle grind go culture. Can’t stop won’t stop, don’t sleep til you’re dead type culture. But, that mentality doesn’t work for everybody. We are all spiritual beings with different energetic compositions. We’re all not meant to burn the candle at both ends, or live off of three hours ofContinue reading “Don’t chase, just…be | #Day6of100”

Is Sex Overrated?🤔

The Brown Beauties are BAACCCCKKKK!!! Hey there heeeyyyy, If you’ve been following me for some time then you’ll remember when I had a LIVE show on Facebook called Brown Beauties Talk. It’s a show my good friend Lavyana & I created where we talked about not only being single & dating but also love, life & relationships.Continue reading “Is Sex Overrated?🤔”

Change your priorities, change your life | Phette Hollins 

I saw this meme the other day: Before my healing journey my priorities were all jacked up. My main focus was romantic relationships because I craved attention. But when you start healing one thing, it carries over to other areas. I started off wanting to heal because pain kept showing up in patterns. I wasContinue reading “Change your priorities, change your life | Phette Hollins “