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The Happy Man At the Gas Station| #Day13of100

It was 7 a.m. & I stopped at the gas station before dropping my daughter off at school. As I was walking inside, a man, who wasn’t looking where he was going, almost bumped into me. He looked my way just in the nick of time & let out an apologetic, “I’m sorry. Excuse me.”Continue reading “The Happy Man At the Gas Station| #Day13of100”

Sapiosexual | #Day15of100

In one of my earlier posts (which you can read here), I talked about being bored out of my gat damn mind & how I crave mental stimulation. I mean, I do a pretty good job entertaining myself & meeting my 6 Basic Human Needs but…shit! As humans, we are hardwired for connection & interaction.Continue reading “Sapiosexual | #Day15of100”

The first true love of my life, my #1stBorn | #Day10of100

Words cannot express how uber proud I am of my oldest daughter. She’s smart, focused, determined with a big heart. I reckon that’s why she decided to become a nurse. When she was in high school, she’d always say that she wanted to be a neo-natal nurse. She absolutely loves kids. She is the #1Continue reading “The first true love of my life, my #1stBorn | #Day10of100”

Accept what is | #Day9of100

My cousin came to visit me at my new place the other day, while I had male company over. She had heard me talk about this guy for almost a year but never met him. Initially, he & I did try to see what we could see. Ya know? See if we could possibly beContinue reading “Accept what is | #Day9of100”

Is Sex Overrated?🤔

The Brown Beauties are BAACCCCKKKK!!! Hey there heeeyyyy, If you’ve been following me for some time then you’ll remember when I had a LIVE show on Facebook called Brown Beauties Talk. It’s a show my good friend Lavyana & I created where we talked about not only being single & dating but also love, life & relationships.Continue reading “Is Sex Overrated?🤔”

In celebration of my 45th birthday, here are 45 things I’ve learned over the years| Phette Hollins

*Updated each year as I get older 1. Love who you see in the mirror 2. Don’t chase love(rs)3. Forgive your parents 4. Trust your intuition5. Don’t take things personally 6. Laugh a lot7. Smile more 8. Be honest9. Don’t speak when angry10. Not everybody is your friend 11. Action speaks louder than words12. TeachContinue reading “In celebration of my 45th birthday, here are 45 things I’ve learned over the years| Phette Hollins”

Being FREE: Living your life…FREE’ly | #Authenticity #PhetteHollins #GettingToFree

**NEW VID** Wanna live your life freely? Here’s how: 1. Identify what FREE looks like to you. 2. Know yourself. 3. Make & take time to get to FREE! 4. STEW in you. Watch the video for more: GETTING TO FREE