If you lost your virginity @11 yrs old, you’d be effed up, too | #DiggingInTheBag |@phettehollins #DITB

Digging in the bag is metaphoric for Digging in the soul. What I discovered as I was scavenging through old photos was how different I was “back then.” Of course, as time progresses the hope is to grow. But sadly, some folks don’t. They stay stuck, stagnant. I want to take the time to celebrate growth…andContinue reading “If you lost your virginity @11 yrs old, you’d be effed up, too | #DiggingInTheBag |@phettehollins #DITB”

Ray of Clouds #Ninja4 | #DiggingInTheBag |@phettehollins #DITB

Unlike my last post, *you can read it –> HERE <–*, I got permission to post the photos I’m about to post without having to mask the face. The ones you see with the masks are, in this case, innocent bystanders. 🙂 OK, HERE IT GOES… I got so many pictures of this dude I had toContinue reading “Ray of Clouds #Ninja4 | #DiggingInTheBag |@phettehollins #DITB”

I live with my baby mama but I swear on my kids we ain’t f@cking – #Ninja2 | #LetItPurge #PurgeItThursday #DiggingInTheBag | @phettehollins #DITB

Purge 1. to rid of whatever is impure or undesirable; cleanse; purify. 2. to rid, clear, or free (usually followed by of or from). ~Dictionary.com Stories connect & heal us. Sometimes we’re stuck and don’t even know it. It becomes a new normal. Second nature. But if you find that you keep ending up inContinue reading “I live with my baby mama but I swear on my kids we ain’t f@cking – #Ninja2 | #LetItPurge #PurgeItThursday #DiggingInTheBag | @phettehollins #DITB”

Detox: For real for real, this time : Day 2 #WritingThroughIt | @phettehollins

Blocked your calls. Blocked your text messages… but I know you’re messaging. Work…phone…write…phone…sleep…Netflix…check blocked messages…write…eat…phone…check blocked messages…check blocked messages…sleep…check blocked messages. #repeat Blocked your calls. Blocked your text messages…but I know you’re messaging. slowly…blocking…you! *Disclaimer: My #WritingThroughIt posts are raw emotions with very little editing. I’m not super pressed about grammar, but will give theContinue reading “Detox: For real for real, this time : Day 2 #WritingThroughIt | @phettehollins”

Demons: #WritingThroughIt | #BczOfSelina @phettehollins

I swear I’ve never felt so much pain as the pain I feel since I lost my mother. Almost 8 months later and I’m still in shock. Some days all I wanna do is lie in bed, balled up in the fetal position, and cry for days. That’s it. Not take a shower. Not getContinue reading “Demons: #WritingThroughIt | #BczOfSelina @phettehollins”

#DiggingInTheBag – The Intro |@phettehollins #DITB

Because we’re in an age where cell phone camera pictures are all the rage, I thought it’d be fun to take pictures (with my cell phone’s camera) of actual Polaroid and 35mm camera pictures and whatever other types of cameras that were used…back in the day. But while digging in the BIG bag (see imageContinue reading “#DiggingInTheBag – The Intro |@phettehollins #DITB”

4 Reasons Why I Needed A Break

It has been a while. Like…2015 a while, since my last post. Soooo…happy holidays, Merry New Year, and all lat. Most of us have lots of things going on and have to juggle and do balancing acts to ensure things flow. Because, the reality is, we all get the same 24 hours in a dayContinue reading “4 Reasons Why I Needed A Break”

What is your pain trying to tell you? @phetteogburn

Hi y’all. I’m back. The reason for my one week delay is because my laptop is semi-functional and causing me some grief… For a couple of days, it wouldn’t allow me to log in. Now that I’m able to log in, I have to be crafty and minimize the programs I’m working in just rightContinue reading “What is your pain trying to tell you? @phetteogburn”

Reflection ~One Year Later: 5 Things I Learned After the Divorce @phetteogburn

Happy Monday!!!! Let me say off the rip, please excuse the quality of this video. I recorded it late last night with no natural light (which works best for my webcam). This is not a comprehensive list, but just a few things I’ve learned since my divorce a year and a half ago. 1. PaceContinue reading “Reflection ~One Year Later: 5 Things I Learned After the Divorce @phetteogburn”

Address NOT Suppress Healing Series: Family @phetteogburn

Hey y’all, A few months ago, I announced on my YouTube Channel that I would be doing a series called Address NOT Suppress, a healing series. This series will essentially be documenting my healing journey and getting to the essence of being a better ME. I saw a therapist yesterday, who I believe will notContinue reading “Address NOT Suppress Healing Series: Family @phetteogburn”