Accept what is | #Day9of100

My cousin came to visit me at my new place the other day, while I had male company over. She had heard me talk about this guy for almost a year but never met him. Initially, he & I did try to see what we could see. Ya know? See if we could possibly beContinue reading “Accept what is | #Day9of100”

Forgive yourself | #Day8of100

We hear all too often about how we should forgive this person for mistreating us or that person for hurting our feelings. And also that forgiving a person is for you & not them. While that may be true, we don’t give enough credence to how necessary & important it is to forgive ourselves. IContinue reading “Forgive yourself | #Day8of100”

One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100

Me & this dude right here used to have so much fun together. I was 16 & he was 18. If my memory serves me correctly, he had just recently moved to Romulus, Michigan, a small town, from Ypsilanti, Michigan, another small town. There’s roughly 20,000 people & 36 square miles, one junior high &Continue reading “One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100”

Is Sex Overrated?🤔

The Brown Beauties are BAACCCCKKKK!!! Hey there heeeyyyy, If you’ve been following me for some time then you’ll remember when I had a LIVE show on Facebook called Brown Beauties Talk. It’s a show my good friend Lavyana & I created where we talked about not only being single & dating but also love, life & relationships.Continue reading “Is Sex Overrated?🤔”

Change your priorities, change your life | Phette Hollins 

I saw this meme the other day: Before my healing journey my priorities were all jacked up. My main focus was romantic relationships because I craved attention. But when you start healing one thing, it carries over to other areas. I started off wanting to heal because pain kept showing up in patterns. I wasContinue reading “Change your priorities, change your life | Phette Hollins “

(Finally) Taking A Stand Against Abandonment Issues | @phettehollins

About a year or so ago, I really started noticing something was off when it came to me and romantic relationships. Before that, I thought I was unlucky af and just was not cut out for the foolery, not knowing that I was bringing the bulk of the foolishness. But not intentionally though. The thingContinue reading “(Finally) Taking A Stand Against Abandonment Issues | @phettehollins”

The INFP (Healer & Idealist) in Relationships | @phettehollins

It’s July 5th y’all. Did y’all eat a lotta grub? Not me. I had a business meeting then ate some regular ol food. #IntrovertedProblems Meanwhile, I posted a vid about how my personality type affects my relationships. Please ck it out & let me know what ya think!!! Find out your personality type —>>> MBTIContinue reading “The INFP (Healer & Idealist) in Relationships | @phettehollins”