Human Design: Blueprint of Your Life | #Day12of100

Almost two months ago, I ordered a Human Design Blueprint from a young woman I’ve been following on Instagram for a few years. Her posts & stories really resonate with me, so I felt compelled to have a reading done. I truly believe that the greatest education one could get is learning/studying thyself. Once youContinue reading “Human Design: Blueprint of Your Life | #Day12of100”

What are your dreams trying to tell you | #Day11of100

Up until very recently, I used to think that dreams were these random, oftentimes crazy happenings. Because, what could it possibly mean, besides nothing at all, to dream that all of your teeth are falling out? Or that you’re suspended in air, floating about in a parking lot? Or that you’re being chased by monstersContinue reading “What are your dreams trying to tell you | #Day11of100”

Accept what is | #Day9of100

My cousin came to visit me at my new place the other day, while I had male company over. She had heard me talk about this guy for almost a year but never met him. Initially, he & I did try to see what we could see. Ya know? See if we could possibly beContinue reading “Accept what is | #Day9of100”

Forgive yourself | #Day8of100

We hear all too often about how we should forgive this person for mistreating us or that person for hurting our feelings. And also that forgiving a person is for you & not them. While that may be true, we don’t give enough credence to how necessary & important it is to forgive ourselves. IContinue reading “Forgive yourself | #Day8of100”

How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100

Over the last couple of years, I’ve been delving into Shadow Work. Reading up on anything I can get my hands on. If you’re not familiar, it’s a concept created by Carl Jung, a psychologist from back in the day, who believed that we all have a light side and a dark, shadow side toContinue reading “How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100”

[Video] What is a Life & Story Coach? | by Phette Hollins

After toying around with the idea for yearrssss, I finally got the hint and decided that resistance was futile 🤣 I’ve been on a healing journey for seven years but on a life journey for at least 15. We all get to a point where we ask the simple yet most elusive question in theContinue reading “[Video] What is a Life & Story Coach? | by Phette Hollins”

[Audio] REAL TALK: The truth about why you’re standing in your own way | by Phette Hollins

I shared this meme on my Facebook page the other day and it got me to thinking about my own life. I know it’s easier said than done, but we must not take things personally. The book The Four Agreements by Don Juan Miguel really helped me understand this. Everything starts in our minds, soContinue reading “[Audio] REAL TALK: The truth about why you’re standing in your own way | by Phette Hollins”

4 Signs that it’s time to heal & get your sh!t together | by Phette Hollins

So, today, I did a thing. I went LIVE on my Facebook Business Page. Usually, I go LIVE from my personal page because I get waaayyy more engagement on there. But, in an attempt to start thinking of things from a business lens, I did it there. It was also my first time using StreamYardContinue reading “4 Signs that it’s time to heal & get your sh!t together | by Phette Hollins”

In celebration of my 45th birthday, here are 45 things I’ve learned over the years| Phette Hollins

*Updated each year as I get older 1. Love who you see in the mirror 2. Don’t chase love(rs)3. Forgive your parents 4. Trust your intuition5. Don’t take things personally 6. Laugh a lot7. Smile more 8. Be honest9. Don’t speak when angry10. Not everybody is your friend 11. Action speaks louder than words12. TeachContinue reading “In celebration of my 45th birthday, here are 45 things I’ve learned over the years| Phette Hollins”

(Finally) Taking A Stand Against Abandonment Issues | @phettehollins

About a year or so ago, I really started noticing something was off when it came to me and romantic relationships. Before that, I thought I was unlucky af and just was not cut out for the foolery, not knowing that I was bringing the bulk of the foolishness. But not intentionally though. The thingContinue reading “(Finally) Taking A Stand Against Abandonment Issues | @phettehollins”