Human Design: Blueprint of Your Life | #Day12of100

Almost two months ago, I ordered a Human Design Blueprint from a young woman I’ve been following on Instagram for a few years. Her posts & stories really resonate with me, so I felt compelled to have a reading done. I truly believe that the greatest education one could get is learning/studying thyself. Once youContinue reading “Human Design: Blueprint of Your Life | #Day12of100”

Accept what is | #Day9of100

My cousin came to visit me at my new place the other day, while I had male company over. She had heard me talk about this guy for almost a year but never met him. Initially, he & I did try to see what we could see. Ya know? See if we could possibly beContinue reading “Accept what is | #Day9of100”

Forgive yourself | #Day8of100

We hear all too often about how we should forgive this person for mistreating us or that person for hurting our feelings. And also that forgiving a person is for you & not them. While that may be true, we don’t give enough credence to how necessary & important it is to forgive ourselves. IContinue reading “Forgive yourself | #Day8of100”

One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100

Me & this dude right here used to have so much fun together. I was 16 & he was 18. If my memory serves me correctly, he had just recently moved to Romulus, Michigan, a small town, from Ypsilanti, Michigan, another small town. There’s roughly 20,000 people & 36 square miles, one junior high &Continue reading “One of my exes passed away | #Day7of100”

Don’t chase, just…be | #Day6of100

We live in such a hustle hustle grind go culture. Can’t stop won’t stop, don’t sleep til you’re dead type culture. But, that mentality doesn’t work for everybody. We are all spiritual beings with different energetic compositions. We’re all not meant to burn the candle at both ends, or live off of three hours ofContinue reading “Don’t chase, just…be | #Day6of100”

bored af: SINGLE while craving human touch & emotional closeness| #Day4of100

Before I began writing this post, I asked Siri what the definitions of bored and lonely were. I had already chosen the title, but wanted to make sure that I was choosing the right adjective to describe my current state. I was right. I don’t feel sad or a sense of abandonment, nor do IContinue reading “bored af: SINGLE while craving human touch & emotional closeness| #Day4of100”

How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100

Over the last couple of years, I’ve been delving into Shadow Work. Reading up on anything I can get my hands on. If you’re not familiar, it’s a concept created by Carl Jung, a psychologist from back in the day, who believed that we all have a light side and a dark, shadow side toContinue reading “How the core wounds we get in childhood show up in our adult lives | #Day3of100”

‘I May Destroy You’ Finale | Review by Phette Hollins | #sexualassault #rape #stealthing

Let me breathe first because, whew! There’s so much to unpack in this show. I’m not big on small talk so I’ma just dive right in. The first episode follows Arabella, played by the amazingly talented Michaela Coel, who created, wrote, directed, and stars in the show, as she struggles to complete the draft ofContinue reading “‘I May Destroy You’ Finale | Review by Phette Hollins | #sexualassault #rape #stealthing”

[Video] ‘I May Destroy You’ Episode 8 | Review by Phette Hollins | #michaelacoel #sexualassault #stealthing

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[Video] What is a Life & Story Coach? | by Phette Hollins

After toying around with the idea for yearrssss, I finally got the hint and decided that resistance was futile 🤣 I’ve been on a healing journey for seven years but on a life journey for at least 15. We all get to a point where we ask the simple yet most elusive question in theContinue reading “[Video] What is a Life & Story Coach? | by Phette Hollins”